Posted: January 16, 2011 in Uncategorized

We always thought that the person who have in our life will be the perfect or the near perfect person for us for vice-versa but when something happens, our thinking and perception will change.
Like people always says, Trust and Faith are the most important ingredient in love but in order to have trust, both in the parties have to be honest and truthful towards each other, but when one party starts to lie.. the love will sooner or later be gone..

Today i read a story in a forum posted by a guy… this is briefing what he post in the forum which i think is very true…
“I was with this girl for a long time, and we were perfectly fine towards each other until 1 day i smell something fishy going between she and another guy so i decided to check out on her.. and really 1 fine day i overlooked her phone and sees she was exchanging msg with another guy, then I confront her after that but she denies and said she only exchange msg with her girlfriend and no other people until I pin point out the evidence and timing then she admits everything out and told me she was lying to me and she told me she and that guy were nothing… but i donno why if there was nothing on why would she lie to me. Please advice thanks!”

After i read i was thinking ya its true why should his gf lie to him if there was nothing between that guy and his girlfriend and why the girlfriend must hide from him? Why couple must hide things from each other and cant be honest with each other and more worse case that is to lie to the other party. I always find it that its so amuse that if you have the intention of starting a lie then you should know that it will only take another 10 lies to cover that 1 lie, then another 100 lies to cover for the 10 lies and more obviously we should know the consequence of knowing the truth that someone tell a lie. And the poor guy now donno how to have trust in his girlfriend anymore and he seems to be so depress.. poor guy :(( . Read about his story i also feel emo…

When they say 纸是包不住火的 it really got its meaning..

Thats why i advise people, always be true to the person who u say i love u because if you are even going to lie to someone who u say i love u everyday, then u are not a good lover anymore and there will be a loophole in the relationship ever again.. trust and faith don’t build overnight, it needs to slowly accumulate and form it into a very huge energy for it to stay and maintain in a relationship.

I personally also encounter this type of incident before… where the truth were hide and lies were told but eventually i found out everything… yes it feels hurt and quite torturing and it was really very sad for me to get back to my feet again… thats why a lie could kill a person heart and a lie will always be a lie.. there are no white lies or lies.. lies are lies..
Once bitten, twice shy.. twice bitten i think i can really go and die..

To be in a relationship u have to have trust, but in order to have trust both must be honest, trust towards each other was so hard to build so honesty is a very important ingredient in love.

Ok back to myself, my dear pretty girlfriend begins her training flight yesterday and soon she will start flying around the whole world for the at least next 2 years.. i really hope that she will know how to take care of herself and even though she starts flying she will not forget me this fatty boyfriend of hers and most importantly be honest of what she do and be true to me! Even though she hides her tweet from me and i don’t know what she badmouth me in her tweet or praising another guy handsome or what but i still hope she can be truthful enough so that i wont be like the guy who post that sad story in the forum…

She called me just now from Shanghai and i just feel so great to be able to hear her voice.. even though she sounds very tired and in fact she was real damm tired.. she’s going to fly back tomorrow and im gonna see her tomorrow and i guess my mother will be boiling some tonic soup for her to refresh her body.. and i guess i would be the delivery boy to deliver food for her to eat already.. blogging about her also makes me think and miss her so much.. donno why i just love her so much!!

To my dear girlfriend and wife to be soon.. i just notice something.. the last time we took a photo together was like on my birthday? or u still owe me alot of pictures?
I wanna take 1 photo with u in kebaya~!!!

So hope this day faster arrive~!!! 😀

And before i end this post…

Happy 1 year old birthday to the ‘si char bor’ chao wawa chew~
1 year old liao dont be so naughty already always disturb me and your jiejie sleep at night~ scratching the doors and always trying jumping to the bed but failed~

love u this naughty smelly girl many many and please just let us sleep for peace for 2 nights per week ok thank u!







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